Monday, August 18, 2014

The Truth About Cheaters

Here's the cold, hard truth about cheating -- if someone cheats on you, it means they don't care about you. I know it sounds harsh, but it's a fact. The moment your significant other decided to cheat is the moment they decided you weren't worth it. A cheater doesn't respect you. A cheater doesn't care about your heart. The moment your significant other cheated on you, was the moment they proved that you were their insignificant other.

Be careful, because in the midst of all that painful emotion of being cheated on, a cheater will often try to spin the blame on you and try to make you feel guilty, but there are NO excuses for cheating! If they have an issue with you, they need to talk to you about that issue or break up with you.

A cheater may apologize and promise to do everything to prove to you how sorry they are, but don't let that fool you. Because even if they absolutely stay true to their word, it doesn't change the fact that at least one point in their relationship with you they didn't think you were worth it. All it takes is one time for them to not think you were worth it, for this to become a cycle for them and cheat on you again. You deserve someone who ALWAYS knows your worth.

If your significant other cheats on you, that means they decided you were their insignificant other, and it's time you do the same. Break up with them, because there is someone out there who will know your worth and treat you like a truly significant other. That person will cherish you. That person will never cheat on you.

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